Let's make space to talk about how we feel about portrait photography. When was the last time you sat for portrait? How did you feel, was it an enjoyable experience? In an age where selfies are everywhere on social media why do we often shy away from professional photography?
Portraits have always been a passion of mine starting as a young girl drawing people to my days at University drawing nudes and through the years photographing my children as they grew and now my grandchildren. When I look back I notice that I am not in many photos and I began to think about that.
My low self esteem and body dysmorphia created a fear of being in front of the camera. I could only see ugly, fat, awkward me. When I began to study photography I created a series of self portraits that pushed me way outside my comfort zone! At the beginning I felt that fear come back but as I went through the process I felt a sense of power and love for myself. Looking at the shots afterward it was confronting but comforting.
Sitting in the model seat also gave me a deeper appreciation for how the people I photography may feel.
When I take your photograph, I see you, I understand the struggles you may
internalise and I am here to help you overcome this and to photograph you, the essence and spirit of you; your personality and all that makes you uniquely you. I promise to help you feel comfortable and confident and love the images I produce for you. With that in mind, think fun, relaxed banter and discovering a side of you, you have not seen or felt before.
Here are some reasons you may struggle with when thinking about having your photograph taken.
Self-consciousness: Many people feel self-conscious about their appearance and worry about how they will look in a photograph. This can be influenced by societal standards of beauty and body image.
Insecurity: Individuals may feel insecure about certain features or aspects of themselves, such as their weight, skin imperfections, or facial expressions, which can make them reluctant to be photographed.
Lack of Control: Being photographed can make people feel vulnerable, as they have limited control over how they are portrayed in the final image. They may worry about appearing unflattering or being captured in an unguarded moment.
Past Negative Experiences: Negative experiences with photography, such as unflattering photos or intrusive paparazzi, can contribute to a dislike of having their photo taken.
Cultural or Personal Beliefs: Some cultures or individuals may have beliefs or superstitions about having their photo taken, viewing it as capturing a part of their soul or inviting bad luck.
Fear of Judgment: There may be a fear of judgment or criticism from others based on their appearance in the photograph, leading to reluctance to be photographed.
Privacy Concerns: In an age of social media and online sharing, people may be concerned about their privacy and where their photos may end up, leading them to avoid being photographed
Having a portrait photograph taken by a professional photographer can make you feel nervous, but if you find someone who gets you, who understands you then the experience will be memorable and the images incredible because you are amazing, beautiful and unique.
If after reading this your confidence is soaring, chat with me and let's do this!
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